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Catastrophizing: What’s Worse?

April 9th, 2024|Anxiety, Coaching, Featured, Individual Counseling|

There are times when we all worry about something happening. However, some people have a cognitive disorder that will cause a person to elicit beliefs that the situation is far worse than it is in reality. This is known as catastrophizing. It is a disorder that causes a person to see every upsetting situation as catastrophic. We all face difficult situations but we don’t all see them as catastrophic. Some will dismiss this disorder as being overly dramatic or exaggerated, but it isn’t as simple as that. Most people don’t notice they are catastrophizing. They feel like they are thinking logically until they are made aware of the problem. God did not design us to worry about the small or big things in life. He designed us to seek Him and let the worry take care of itself. But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided to you. “So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”  –  Matthew 6:33-34, NASB Signs of catastrophizing Most of the time this type of thinking is a symptom of underlying mental health conditions. It’s not always easy to know when the negative thinking is spiraling so here are seven signs to help identify catastrophizing thought processes. Experience negative self-talk Self-talk is the inner dialog you have with yourself that helps navigate life. When this becomes critical and discouraging it is called negative self-talk. Racing thoughts This occurs when your thoughts are constantly coming one after the other jumping from one subject to another. Overthinking situations or events Overthinking is simply repeatedly dwelling on the same situation over and over again so much that it disrupts everyday life. Overwhelmed with feelings of anxiety, depression, or [...]

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How to Remind Yourself of Truth

August 2nd, 2023|Coaching, Featured, Individual Counseling, Spiritual Development|

We all know it’s not easy to remember that what God says is truth. Some things in life can overwhelm us, making us forget the things God tells us in His Word. When this happens, reminding yourself of what He says can help change your whole outlook on life. Problems, feelings, and difficult relationships can make it hard to keep our eyes on what God says. When that happens, we can remind ourselves and the people in our lives of the things God declares about who He is and who we are through Him. All hope is not lost. Life can feel overwhelmingly hopeless. When situations arise again and again it can be hard to see the way out. People tend to give up hope, feeling like the problem will never be resolved, the relationship will never be restored, or we will never make it through. But that isn’t what God says. For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. – Jeremiah 29:11, ESV You don’t need to find hope on your own. You can rest in the promise that God provides the hope you long for. He has a future for you. The truth that God is trustworthy. In a world that lets you down, knowing who to trust is difficult. Sometimes it feels like no one is trustworthy. Whether it’s a loved one who isn’t there for you, a job that didn’t give you what you expected, or a situation that just didn’t happen the way it was supposed to, trust can feel foolish. But there is one you can always trust. our Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your [...]

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